As a girl we all know what we want in a guy and In our little heads we have an “Ideal Guy” . Yes we do girls you know it! For me, my ideal boyfriend would make me smile and make me happy. My parents have gave me advice on guys and I really think they are right in what I should look for in a guy so I could be happy with him. I can really trust what my mom has told me she has seen many teenage relationships gone wrong. She was a careers with children teacher at a high school. Yes she has seen pregnant teens and young moms being single with no help, and of course she doesn’t want me to end up like that. So when she doesn’t approve of a guy I know their must be something wrong with the kid because she doesn’t just say it to say it she has a reason. I am in no position to have a boyfriend and at this age I really think that I don’t need one. I would love to have guy friends and have fun with them. But I am to young for a relationship. I am not prepared for a relationship I cant be serious I am 15 years old. But I can see relationships observe them and learn from them. So I can slowly be developing the guy I would like to be with.
When I observe relationships I see that there are girls who have boyfriends and they are drinkers and smokers. YUCK turn off. Now why would I want THAT in a guy OH NO. That is a no no, those boys are damaging their body and looking at a bad future ahead of them. So my guy would have to be a non smoker and drinker. The boy would have to be serious and be able to settle down. Think about the future he would have with me in it. Be honest caring and loving. Have a nice family and have good communicated. Not an angry person but a sweet person. Knows how to be independent but could have me to support him in any his dreams and goals or achievements.
By the time as I get older and observe more I will add on to the list and maybe even subtract from the list. But overall this ideal boyfriend could be out there for me. And if I meet someone and doesn’t meet these standards deuces dude.
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